It’s a gripping headline, don’t you think? It’s certainly one that makes you think whether or not you could be missing out on something, doesn’t it? Well, the reality is you might be. You could be missing out on sexual experiences that you only thought possible in your wildest fantasies. Don’t believe me? Let’s take a closer look….
For me, bondage was something I’d only read about in books like Fifty Shades of Grey, or by watching movies like the oldie but goodie, Nine and a Half Weeks. It’s a thrilling watch if you’ve never seen it. The art of restraining your partner, and being restrained in return, to open a whole new world of sexual exploration – that was something that happened in books, not something that would happen to me.
My husband is a very conservative man. It is a missionary position kind of thing, mostly on Sunday nights, and only when he hasn’t had the week from hell… Which is most weeks. After 30 years of marriage, I decided that it was time for me to try new things. I decided to look elsewhere.
I didn’t think infidelity was something I’d ever seriously think about – cheating on my husband who I love and adore. But there was something seriously missing from our relationship, and it had been missing for a number of years. After signing up to a Granny dating website in the hope to find a younger man who would perhaps live out some of my fantasies, I came across Frankie, a 27 year old guy who lived only 20 minutes or so away from me. After a few days of chatting online, we decided to meet up, and after three weeks of our affair starting, I decided I could trust him enough to tell him what I was looking for.
To my pleasure and delight, Frankie didn’t look at me in horror as my husband had done when I tested the waters with the idea of tying him up and having my wicked way with him. I had thought the promise of some naughty lingerie may have swayed it for the hubby, but it was wasted. It definitely wasn’t wasted, however, on my new younger lover, 22 years my junior, and when I suggested playing around with bondage, just the very next day he turned up at my door when my husband was at another golfing event, with handcuffs, a leather blindfold, and a soft riding crop… He wanted to reenact the rinding crop scene that I had told him about from Fifty Shades of Grey.
After a couple of months of dating, we decided to be open about our sex lives, and Frankie told me that I wasn’t the first Granny he had dated. Nor was I the first Granny that had asked him to perform some light bondage. Apparently, there is a whole group of 35-50 year old women, and sometimes older, desperate to try new things like tying each other up, and playing around with the pleasure / pain line. I guess it’s the thrill of trying something new that does it. There must be a reason why so many GILF’s are on the lookout for a younger guy to explore and experiment with.
Of course, it might not be bondage that your Granny lover is looking for. It could be any number of fantasies or fetishes – threesomes, swinging, bondage, you name it. The fact of the matter is that these are women looking for someone to lend them a helping hand, and if this sounds like something you could actively assist with, you should check out Granny dating for yourself. What’s the point in dating and banging a younger guy, if you’re not going to enjoy all the pleasures of it?
So, next time you’re wondering how to impress your GILF lover, why not ask her what she really wants in the bedroom? You might just be in for a very pleasant surprise….